Planned Parenthood: Teach your preschoolers ‘their genitals dont determine their gender’

Apparently children as young as 4 are not too young to be told that gender and sex are different and that their genitals don’t indicate their gender, according to new Planned Parenthood guidelines for parents.

On a page of its website titled How do I talk with my preschooler about their body? the abortion provider says if a child inquires why boys and girls have different bodies, a parent should introduce the concept of transgender identity.

While the most simple answer is that girls have vulvas and boys have penises/testicles, that answer isnt true for every boy and girl, the organization says. Boy, girl, man and woman are words that describe gender identity, and some people with the gender identities boy or man have vulvas, and some with the gender identity girl or woman have penises/testicles. Your genitals dont make you a boy or a girl.

Parents should then point out to their child, the page continues, that genitals do not definitively establish gender, and that their children can make that decision based on your values and how you plan to talk with your kid about gender as they grow up.

Critics, mainly from conservative ranks, say Planned Parenthoods encouragement of parents to discuss gender identity with children who barely can string a sentence together and havent yet learned the alphabet is preposterous.

Some people with the gender identities ‘boy’ or ‘man’ have vulvas, and some with the gender identity ‘girl’ or ‘woman’ have penises/testicles. You genitals don’t make you a boy or a girl.

– Planned Parenthood’s new guidelines on discussing the body with preschoolers

Gender is not fluid, either you have a penis or you dont, said Tim Wildmon, president of American Family Association, a Mississippi-based group that promotes conservative values. What Planned Parenthood is promoting here is just stupidity masked as sensitivity. If youre an adult and trying to talk to a child about whether theyre really a boy or girl, youre at risk of harming them psychologically.

Unless a boy or girl is exhibiting behavior or says that theyre messed up about what they are, theres no reason to bring something like that up at such a young age, he said.

What Planned Parenthood is promoting here is just stupidity masked as sensitivity.

– Ted Wildmon, president, American Family Association

Efforts to obtain a comment from Planned Parenthood were unsuccessful.

Critics also say that Planned Parenthoods suggested talking points are misleading.

Of all the things it is absurd, irresponsible, pretentious one thing it definitely is not is scientific, New York Daily News columnist S.E. Cupp wrote about the guidelines. If you do need help talking to your kids about gender and gender identity and theres no shame in that please, use real science as a guideline, and not garbage propaganda.

The truth is, sex is more complicated today. But the conversations youll more likely need to have with your kids will center on technology the dangers lurking on the internet, sexting, revenge porn and not anatomy.

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